To be or not to be (in a relationship) is the question.
Someone asked me: "What is the advantage of being in a relationship? After all, I can be single and go out with as many men as I want, and enjoy both worlds" and this is an excellent question whose essence boils down to the question: "What is the advantage of being in a relationship?" You can even say that this is a philosophical question, because there is no right or wrong answer here. At the end of the day, everyone has to decide what is best for them.
It is important to know that you can be single and date several men, there are also asexual women and men, you can also choose polyamory and a variety of other options. The point is, that the legend about the princess, who was imprisoned in the castle of the evil dragon, and waited until the brave prince came galloping on the white horse and rescued her, and they lived happily ever after – this legend is surely not reality!
To answer this question, I chose to list only 7 advantages of being in a relationship as I see it, in my life there are many more! And of course you will decide for yourself if it is worth it for you to be in a relationship or if you prefer to be a debauched bachelor.
Two are better than one
The famous saying does not lie. With two, it's easier to overcome the obstacles and bumps that life throws at us, but not only that, it's fun to have someone to share the happy and exciting moments in life with. Did the boss annoy you? You can vent in a conversation with your partner; Are you going to an interview for a new job? You will be able to receive a boost of positive and uplifting energy from your partner; A good friend lied to you? You will be able to talk to your partner and get the support you need; Did something sad happen to you? You can cuddle on your partner's shoulder; Did something happy happen to you? You will be able to be happy and excited together with your partner.
A couple in love, illustration (Photo: Inimage)Sex sex sex
It is true that there is some image of a single woman who meets another boyfriend or partner for sex every night at the pub, but we all know that this is not really realistic and does not work like that in reality. In reality there will be many lonely evenings, frustrating love days and porno comforting the loneliness. On the other hand, with a partner you will be able to have sex whenever you decide you both want it – sounds like paradise to my senses!
Marital intimacy: sex that is a maddening passion
Sex is beautiful and good, but when is sex full of passion, maddening the senses and producing multiple orgasms? When there is love, passion, marital intimacy and healthy communication in this sex – all of these can only be produced with regular partners and less so with casual men. So a healthy marital relationship with marital intimacy = unrestrained passion and sexual pleasure like no other! Only this point in itself wins for me! Rrrrrrrrrrrrr… I got horny!
Spouses having sex (Photo: Inimage)starting a family
Together with a partner you can start a warm and loving family. True, it is certainly possible with today's means to have children even on your own, but it is not a trivial matter! Bringing children into the world is one of the most complex things, if not the most complex, and it's good to have a supportive partner, with whom you can go through the pregnancy, make joint decisions regarding education and a host of other challenges with raising and educating children.
Pregnancy (Photo: Ingimage)Life partnership
One of the beautiful things about a relationship is that you can grow old together. Maybe at a young age it is difficult to look into the future and think about it, but if you put part of your salary in a pension, to secure your financial future, then you will see the relationship as an investment for the future in all other respects. In old age you will be able to help each other get to medical examinations, be there for each other in retirement, deal with everything that comes up in the third age and also enjoy retirement together! Going to the movies midweek at 11:00 in the morning, playing bridge until 3 at night and other pastimes together.
Oxytocin for the masses
Good love for health! Yes, my life. The oxytocin hormone, which is secreted when a loved one hugs you or for example during an orgasm, and even when sleeping together with a partner you love, gives you peace and security. You know that smile you have on your face all day, after the evening your partner conquered you, stripped you and twisted you in some new sex positions you didn't know? That smile is the oxytocin circulating in your system. With the help of a loving relationship and of course the cultivation of an interesting and beneficial sexual relationship, you will contribute to the increase in oxytocin levels and thus to your calmness and happiness.
Love, stability, support and security
In principle, one could write an endless scroll about the benefits of being in a relationship. Bottom line, a healthy relationship provides a stable ground that is the foundation for everything in life. With the help of this infrastructure that gives you support and security and wraps you in love – the sky is the limit! If you nurture your relationship and it lifts you up, that's something money can't buy. From my acquaintances with thousands of couples to whom I advise, a relationship is the basis of a good and happy life!
In conclusion, it's true, a relationship is not just for Abu Dhabi and kisses and hugs all day, for a relationship to be good and fruitful, you need to invest in it and nurture it throughout the duration of the relationship, it's an investment that you need to persevere with forever. I'm not saying that it should be in every relationship, absolutely not! But, if you invest in a healthy and fertile relationship, you will have so many benefits, including enjoyable multi-orgasmic sex, but not only! So it is important to know that the fairy tale about the prince and princess is not reality, but it was born as an idealization of a relationship, and in a real relationship there will be complex moments, but also moments when you will feel on top of the world like the king and queen of the world! I promise!
so what are you saying?
To be or to be in a relationship?
Good question!
your,
Limor
Limor Bandel , a teacher of pleasure, accompanies couples and individuals to create sexual desire and passion for years. Come to my Facebook group Awakening Together for more posts on the subject.
