Sapir Borgil, the sister of Shanir Borgil , entered the "Big Brother" house live last Thursday. Just before her entry into the famous house, we caught Sapir for a conversation at the Neve Ilan Hotel, where she was staying in isolation for her entry into the closed house. Sapir shared with us her concerns about the reaction of her brother, Shinir, with whom she has been estranged for six months, and the surprise when she shared that the purpose of her entering the house is mainly for her own personal experience and not only to make peace with her brother. Tonight (Sunday) the third episode of "Big Brother" will be broadcast, in which we will get to see the pair of estranged brothers hugging at home.

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How did you get to "Big Brother"?
"This whole process was very challenging and difficult. Regardless of my brother, I went to audition for 'Big Brother' because I wanted to enter the house, we auditioned day after day. He didn't know that I also auditioned. We are a house that always watches the show and hosts people to the screening of 'The Big Brother'. I was very surprised that he chose to participate in this process. I also realized that I have an opportunity here to fix the situation between us."

Are you actually entering the house because of your brother Shnir?
"Not only because of my brother. They approached me and wanted me to enter because they wanted to get to know me. There is no shortage of stories about brothers who do not speak. I enter for the experience of myself, I am a very brave person, and this can be a good experience for me and it is a privilege to enter this house. On the way also I will try to fix the situation with my brother, but first I am going in for myself. I know I can be a very interesting tenant, I have a lot to offer not only because of the fight with my brother. I feel like I won the lottery. As someone who watched the show to see, experience and be in the kitchen, For me it's a trip, it's an experience. More than a prize that can change my life."

Shinir Borgil (Photo: Michael Tomarkin)

How did you manage to hide from your brother that you entered the house?
"I had the hardest time hiding it while he gets excited and says he's coming in and I can't say anything. Neither to my parents. I didn't have too much time to react. I only shared with my mom when the taxi was waiting for me outside. This whole move of packing things was Like a secret agent. Packing and leaving the things in the car, at that time there were various publications about me entering, and I denied it all the time."

How do you think his reaction will be when you come down the stairs?
"I have no idea, I don't know what to expect. I'm doing something very brave and unexpected. With me and my brother, anything can happen. It's hard for me to believe that he will accept that I'm a tenant, and it's possible that he'll also go up the stairs and retire. All our lives we've been in a kind of hidden competition He always felt he had to compare with me, and I'm afraid he'll think that I'm once again coming to compete or ruin his experience, instead of understanding that I want to experience it and it can be good for me. It can be good for us as brothers, no one experiences Such an experience. If he looks at me when I go down the stairs, it will be a miracle. I will try to read his eyes and understand if I can approach or if I will give him a few days."

Half a year of disconnection even though they lived in the same house. Do you think you will be able to solve it in 'Big Brother'?
"Before we entered into this experience, I tried to resolve the matter and he didn't want to. It's hard for me to believe that because I entered the house he would want to talk to me, but there's nothing to lose, we're already at our lowest point, I'm just anxious that he'll put me in for eviction, that can also happen."

Tell me about your relationship.
"We are very, very close. It's far beyond the connection of a normal brother and sister. Even when we're apart, it's not enmity, it's a great love. Only when you see us together will you understand the dynamic. If someone fights with me, he will fight with him, but he still won't talk to me. We were raised according to the values that family is above all. But unfortunately I failed and I was not able to crack him to the end. I didn't want him to experience the mistakes I made, and he took everything I said as criticism and not as someone who cares for him. I am very direct and can be critical but my intentions are always good , like a mother who protects her children too much, I may have suffocated him."

Guy Zoertz, Sapir Borgil, Liron Weizman, Big Brother (Photo: Yeh'ach)

What did you fight about?
"Six months ago we fought and since then we have been separated. I can't say what we fought about, but I can say that we were both very hurt, but everything can be fixed."

And you won't be embarrassed to fight or make up in front of the "Big Brother" viewers?
"It doesn't matter – neither him nor me what they will say. We don't live according to what others think, even if it's on TV."

There are rumors that this is an exercise you did together. They staged a fight to enter the house together.
"I wish that was the reality. We've been disconnected for a long time and it tears my soul apart. People will always talk, I know my truth and he his truth, and I've already said, I don't care what people think. We live on the same floor, run into each other in the hallway, We do holidays and Friday dinners together, but we don't talk. Even on my grandfather's Shiva, we didn't hug, we didn't exchange a word between us for seven months, not even eye contact."

Didn't the parents or the family try to bridge the gap between you?
"Obviously the parents tried, but my brother and I are very dominant figures in the family. Even our friends who are together don't get into this fight, we'll settle in the end – that's clear, the question is when and if it will be on 'Big Brother'. This is not our first fight, a few years ago We fought and were separated for two years, but then everyone lived in their own apartment. In the end, we reconciled, but since then we've been walking on eggs and the relationship has not returned to what it was."

If they let you choose who gets kicked out of the house – you or your brother, who will you choose?
"I am dismissing myself, of course."

So tell me a little about your family.
"I have two amazing parents. Mother Sigal and father Itzik. I live with my parents, I live with my parents, my brother too. We are four brothers, I am the eldest, Shanir, 27, Sagi, 21, and Sahar, 13. I am the only daughter and the eldest. I have a relationship It's amazing with all the brothers, we've gained a lot of experiences together as a family, we go out in the field, we go fishing together, we have common friends and shared meals. I have an amazing family. We are very close and share everything, my little brother shares everything with me. We talk about everything, sexuality and everything, it's home Very open and inclusive."

How does a 30-year-old woman live with her parents?
"I'm single, studying cosmetology, but four years ago something went off in me. I got into a very difficult financial situation and moved back to my parents' house. The last few years have been very difficult for me and I didn't give up on myself, I always get back on my feet and try. I canceled a wedding twice with two different people. The first one was supposed to be in 2019. I met someone and after three months he proposed to me as a surprise, after two weeks I found out I was pregnant and we decided to bring up the wedding. The day before the henna I canceled everything, I felt that this was not it, I had an abortion on the fourth month and we broke up and it was not an easy parting. I caused a great disappointment to people, and he took it very hard. Then I went back to my ex, a guy I dated for seven years, and after six months he also proposed to me. We felt that we were only getting married so as not to lose each other, but we realized that it might end in divorce and we decided to break up the package".

Sapir Bougrill, the big brother (photo: Facebook screenshot)

And since then you haven't found a new love?
"Since then I haven't been able to survive a relationship. Something in me has closed and sealed off, it's hard for me to express emotion. In today's era, a relationship is becoming a difficult thing, there is much more supply than demand. Social networks don't add and I don't know what I'm looking for and what I want and what kind of life partner ".

Can you share about the economic crash?
"I had a very successful business. I was a franchisee of the 'Yes' company and the business failed and I got into big debts. As a result of these debts, my wings were clipped, and I returned to live with my parents at the age of 30, my self-confidence decreased."

Aren't you afraid that the residents of the Big Brother house will see both of you as some kind of threat to their place in the finals?
"It is clear to me that we will pose a threat to the tenants because there are two of us and the chance is higher, but each of us is an individual, and I wish it would be one of us. We are both different people but very similar. It is important for me to say that I go in first for myself, then to reconcile with him, but First of all for myself. I'm going to show a lot of things at home."

Like what? Which tenant will you be?
"I'm a crazy girl, don't judge me. I'm not a calm person, I'm not violent, but I'm an assertive person. I'm brash, everything with me is 'black or white'. It's very hard to hurt me, I don't care what criticism they write or say about me. But underneath the bra The tough one has a heart made of margarine, so don't let that fool you, there's a little girl hiding inside."